I Used to Enjoy Grocery Shopping… Now I Hate It

Grocery shopping is one of these grown-up chores I’ve never complained about. Most of the time, I see supermarkets as a chance to explore cultures through food, try new products, and get dinner inspiration. And even if I’m not in the mood to wax ecstatic about my local grocery store—let’s face it, in Ottawa, nine times out of ten, I’m filling up the fridge, not delving into culinary traditions—, it’s a quick task that doesn’t bother me. With my flexible freelancer schedule, four supermarkets within walking distance, and reasonable expectations, I can get everything I need for three or four days in less than an hour, including travel time.

Well, that was before.

The other day, I almost started crying between the produce department and the dairy aisle.

And this is how grocery shopping went from “easy peasy” to “are you fucking kidding me?”

Remember the derecho storm?

It had been a stressful week. Remember the May 21 derecho storm that wreaked havoc across Ottawa? I wrote about it the day after, thankful we were among the few lucky ones who still had power, and not yet fully aware of how destructive it had been.

I realized it quickly enough. Naively, I was thinking it would be a weird Victoria Day long weekend with cleanup and damage assessment underway but that everything would be back to normal on Tuesday. Mind you, I also thought we would be fine after a two-week lockdown to “flatten the COVID-19 curve”—I guess I’m a glass-half-full person.

Nine days. That’s how long it took for things to go back to “normal-ish.” Schools were closed, there were hour-long lineups at the pumps because many gas stations were without power or supply, supermarkets were either closed or packed… yes, it was a chaotic week. I took a walk to Merivale Road last Sunday night to see if the power was back on. No such luck. The atmosphere was eerie… this is normally a busy thoroughfare with dozens of stores and businesses.

Merivale Road without power, May 29, Ottawa
Merivale Road without power, May 29, Ottawa

Virus or rare weather event, it’s hard to demand accountability from Mother Nature—and she would have every right to demand accountability from us in the first place. So once again, we adapted to unexpected circumstances and just sucked it up.

Remember when shelves were full, not bare?

So yes, I can’t claim my local supermarket is fully responsible for making me cry. I probably would have cried out of frustration and mental exhaustion at one point

Still, going grocery shopping has become stressful and time-consuming. There’s always a fifty-fifty chance I won’t find what I need because the shelves are empty. It’s not like Canada is running out of food and some supermarkets are better stocked than others—I know. But look at the pictures I took last over the past few weeks and you will understand why I’m frustrated.

Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at FreshCo, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022
Empty shelves at Walmart, Ottawa, May 2022

We cook all our meals and we use common ingredients—rice, pasta, broccoli, cauliflower, carrots, onions, garlic, spinach, zucchini, eggs, etc. Our grocery list is pretty basic and there’s only so much substitution you make. Broccoli for cauliflower or water for stock? Sure. Chips instead of yogurt? Yeah, no (sorry, Mark).

Please, please, don’t tell me to bake my own bread, make my own yogurt and grow my own food. Good for you if you do, but I don’t have the energy to pick up off-grid living skills right now.

Why are shelves empty? I have no idea. I suspect it’s the mix of issues we keep on reading about in the news. And lately, anything on sale has been flying off the shelves, quite understandably because…

Remember when food was affordable?

According to the latest Consumer Price Index from Statistics Canada, food prices are up 8.7 per cent compared to last year. Gains are “broad-based, with consumers paying more for nearly everything at the grocery store.” Over the past year, the price of pasta has risen nearly 20 per cent, fresh fruit by 10 per cent and coffee by around 14 per cent.

It sucks. There’s no other way to put it. And it’s compounded by the fact that, as I’ve just explained, finding what you need is tricky in the first place, so I can’t compare prices and shop where it’s cheaper like I used to do. At one point, you just give up and buy overpriced produce, dairy, and more because you fucking need food.

We’re not the worst off. I have no idea how most people can fill up the fridge these days.

Please, please don’t tell me that rice and beans are a filling meal—I’ve spent time in Central America and I live with a Chinese. Don’t tell me some people are starving in the world right now and that Ukrainians have it worse—really, is it the new standard?

History should have taught us that a frustrated, hungry population does not remain civil. This week, 61% of Canadians reported that inflation has had a noticeable impact on their personal financial situation—and I suspect the other 39% are high as a kite.

It’s easy to blame the pandemic and the war in Ukraine for everything but don’t worry, plenty of corporations are profiteering as usual because such situations incentivize amorality.

People are not angry enough.

Fearmongering has convinced us that the only alternative to capitalism is bread lines and mass poverty but hey since we’re going down this road, maybe it could be an opportunity to change an inherently unsustainable and exploitative system? (Psst! Another world is possible…)

♥ Curiosity makes for good stories.

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Juliette

French by birth, Canadian by choice, nomadic by instinct. I travel, write, and get into just enough trouble to make good stories.

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