You can read My Non-Scary Non-Gory Labour and Birth Story – Part I here and Part II here. This is the last chapter of the birth story… and the beginning of something super exciting!

After The Birth

I breastfed Mark for about an hour, skin-to-skin. He latched right away, lucky me! It felt natural and right and again, I was a bit sore but not in pain. It had left as fast as it had come. I got up, took a shower (the best one ever!) and walked around the room.

Lunch was brought—lasagna, and I was ravenous!—and I took some pictures. I felt great physically, just sore like after a good workout.

We were transferred into another room in the baby & mother unit. This one wasn’t as nice as Room 8 where Mark was born, it was a shared room partitioned with a curtain. Still, it was big enough with a bed for me, a rocking chair, a foldable sofa for the father and a window with a view of the fall colours.

I went out for a walk outside, grabbed a tea at the busy Tim Hortons (yes, two hours after birth I already had itchy feet!), slept a bit, nursed some more, ate…

It felt unreal to have baby Mark with us, in the room, in his bassinet. The nurse was checking on us every hour or so: I was fine and so was he.

Feng went home for a few hours to grab some stuff, including my BlackBerry charger and take-out Vietnamese food, and I stayed with Mark.

Twenty-four hours later

We only stayed a day and a half at the hospital. Since I had given birth at 11 a.m. on Friday, we had to stay until 11 a.m., Saturday.

The night at the hospital was tiring. With all the babies in the room, it was like a domino effect: one would start crying, waking up the other ones.

On Saturday, I just wanted to go home. I was dying for a good shower and I was sick of the hospital food. The meals were actually pretty good but the portions were tiny (think plane meals) and the only alternative was junk food in the cafeteria or from Tim Hortons downstairs. I joked that hospital meals were sponsored by dairy farmers: we kept on being brought milk cartons as snacks!

I kept on bugging the nurse to be discharged. But first, the pediatrician had to examine the baby. I should have been given two IVs of antibiotics (because of being positive to the GBS test) but labour had been so fast that I only had one, and the medical team wanted to make sure Mark was fine (he was).

Unfortunately, the busy pediatrician left the hospital at 2 p.m. for an emergency. The nurse said he may be back later in the day and I kept my fingers crossed. Meanwhile, a young intern gave Mark his first bath—the intern was so nervous himself that it was very funny to watch!

Finally, the pediatrician came back at 6 p.m. and examined Mark and discharged us. An hour later, more blood tests came back all good and we set Mark in his car seat, ready to head home.

Baby Mark, Just Born
Feng and Mark
Our Med Chart
With Baby Mark
The Room in the Mother & Baby Unit

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20 Comments

  1. Cynthia October 22, 2012 at 8:15 am

    Is it me or you’re always eating ? 😉

    You have a really cute baby, congrats again!

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    1. Zhu October 22, 2012 at 10:08 pm

      I was ravenous after birth! 😆 It is quite a workout I guess!

      Reply
  2. Jeruen October 22, 2012 at 8:46 am

    Wow, you’re amazing, two hours after birth, and you’re already queueing for a Tim Hortons! Oh the joys of coffee! 🙂

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    1. Zhu October 22, 2012 at 10:08 pm

      Not even coffee, tea! I’m not a coffee drinker but I love tea 🙂

      Reply
  3. Lily October 22, 2012 at 12:32 pm

    Errr… the thing they put Mark in, in the second room, looks like a display for magazines !

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    1. Zhu October 22, 2012 at 10:09 pm

      OMG, it does! 😆

      Reply
  4. Elisabeth Stewart October 22, 2012 at 4:56 pm

    Sounds like you had a great hospital experience – hope things are going well at home, too.
    Such a beautiful boy you have!

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    1. Zhu October 22, 2012 at 10:09 pm

      We are doing fine, thank you! More on life at home later on… 😉

      Reply
  5. Klaus October 22, 2012 at 7:29 pm

    Those are truly beautiful pictures. You guys look happy *hugs* :).

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    1. Zhu October 22, 2012 at 10:10 pm

      Thank you! It’s such an amazing moment… such a relief when you see the cute baby… yep, an amazing experience!

      Reply
  6. barb October 23, 2012 at 2:33 am

    Hello petite Maman,

    This was a fabulous story, as each woman’s birth story. You are both are blessed. You will now be able to raise and cultivate with love a future multicultural world citizen!

    A beautiful destiny :).

    Big hugs xx

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    1. Zhu October 27, 2012 at 9:38 pm

      Thank you Barbara! Indeed, everyone’s story is different, and everyone’s story is magic 🙂

      Reply
  7. Shionge October 23, 2012 at 7:39 pm

    Baby Mark looks like Feng at this stage and I bet lots of changes soon. So blissful there and I hope you have enough rest to take care of Baby Mark 😀

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    1. Zhu October 27, 2012 at 9:38 pm

      He does look like Feng! But a lot of people say he has my eyes, so we will see! A true mix I’m guessing.

      Reply
  8. Cornflakegirl October 30, 2012 at 6:01 pm

    I think you’re right, baby Mark looks like his father but maybe with your eyes 🙂

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    1. Zhu October 30, 2012 at 10:21 pm

      It’s so hard to say! I do think he looks more like Feng, but maybe it is because it’s a boy.

      Reply
  9. Priyank November 10, 2012 at 10:47 am

    Looks like a world baby. Did you plan a trip with him already? Given how crazy you two are, I am sure you have. 🙂

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    1. Zhu November 10, 2012 at 6:56 pm

      I think he traveled quite a lot when I was pregnant already!

      Reply

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