Turning 39 – How to Celebrate a Birthday Alone in Ubatuba

Turning 39 in Ubatuba wasn’t on my bucket list but I suppose I had to turn 39 somewhere and I knew it wouldn’t be in Canada when I changed my return date.

Sometimes I wonder how old I actually look. I mean, I have white hair and I lost my baby face a decade ago (ahem, sleepless nights with Mark?) but I noticed strangers occasionally act very protective or look shocked when I say I’m married and I have a nine-year-old son. It must be the fact I have yet to dress like a proper lady…

So, how do you celebrate a birthday alone in Ubatuba?

There was an apocalyptic downpour on Sunday—nothing surprising for locals but quite a shock for me, more on that later. Monday was marginally better, just some light rain and I didn’t get soaked, yay!

Still, bit too cloudy to go to the beach even though everybody assured me water was warm and going to the beach on a rainy day was very much a Ubatuba thing to do. Instead, I had an airhead day, getting my legs waxed and my nails done.

This year is a major improvement compared to turning 37 in lockdown in Canada and turning 38 in semi-lockdown exiled in France. As long as I don’t watch the news, I actually love my life—our life—and I consider myself lucky because I know what makes me happy, what gets me excited, and what I’m kind of good at.

Mark read me a story, Feng asked again what I wanted for my birthday, my siblings sent funny messages, my mum still doesn’t resent me for the painful 30 hours of labour 39 years ago, friends actually remember my birthday and sent messages. I didn’t celebrate alone, after all.

And I’m so having a decadent chocolate brownie for dessert.

Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, Farol do Cruzeiro, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, March 21, 2022
Turning 39 in Ubatuba, March 21, 2022
Mark on Skype, March 21, 2022
Mark on Skype, March 21, 2022

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Juliette

French by birth, Canadian by choice, nomadic by instinct. I travel, write, and get into just enough trouble to make good stories.

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